My son has been having car trouble so he’s been using my car.

He said he didn’t change the seat, and he probably didn’t, but it feels different.

Like when someone borrows your shirt and when you get it back it doesn’t fit right anymore. Or you can’t stop thinking someone else wore this, does that happen to anyone else but me?

A friend and I went out one time and due to an unfortunate accident with some type of salad dressing, she needed to change her clothes. She was an hour away but my house was close so I let her borrow a shirt and some jeans.

I got them back a week later they were washed and nice and clean but they seemed bigger to me for some reason, and even though they weren’t the clothes that had the dressing spilled on them I always smelled salad dressing when I wore the shirt and the jeans. Even if I didn’t wear them together.

I never wore those clothes again.

I don’t like loaning clothes because of this, I either have memory of the experience that prompted me to loan the clothes, or I can’t stop thinking, ‘Someone else wore this.’

I don’t know if this is just me or if everyone does this, I should start a group.

The thing is though, I’m perfectly fine with buying second hand clothes. Maybe because I don’t know the people who wore them before me so I can wear them and be fine, I really can’t explain why I have this issue.

This is my life, I never said it was fun.